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Coach Lee Wilson New York Times Interview

Coach Lee Wilson Interviewed By The New York Times on Divorce Rates Among Lockdowns

Note: Coach Lee Wilson was interviewed in a story by the New York Times regarding a poll/survey he did of married couples who were considering divorce prior and during the lockdowns of COVID-19. Below is that interview and story:

From the New York Times:

Some divorce lawyers and relationship experts said that the uncertainty of the pandemic and financial concerns are two reasons couples are staying together.

Divorces from coast to coast have slowed considerably in the last 12 months, according to lawyers, relationship coaches in New York, and records kept by the Superior Court of California.

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When Ex Breaks No Contact and Reaches Out

What To Do When Your Ex Breaks No Contact

After a breakup where you were the one who was broken up with, I almost always suggest using the No Contact Rule.

It’s the mature thing to do simply because you are not attempting to force your way to where you are no longer welcome.

What’s interesting is that it’s also one of the best – if not the best – things that you can do to re-attract your ex if that is what you want. That doesn’t mean it’s not without pitfalls and setbacks.

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Things a Narcissist Can't Feel

7 Things A Narcissist Can’t Feel

Though less than 5% of the population could be clinically diagnosed as having “Narcissistic Personality Disorder,” if your ex or someone you think you want to be in a relationship with acts like a narcissist, why would you want to be in a relationship with them?

If they act like a narcissist, it’s not a consolation prize that they don’t have an official diagnosis.

With that in mind, here are some traits of someone who is narcissistic in terms of what he or she can’t feel that normal people would.

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