Signs your ex is pretending to be over you.

Is Your Ex Pretending To Be Over You?

Sometimes an ex will pretend to be over you.

He or she will put on a strong face and try to make it look like they are happy in their life without you.

Sometimes this is done in an effort to get you back, but it can also be done in an effort to appear strong, not just to you, but to other people.

What people fail to realize is that an ex can be very confused about the breakup and life.

Especially if you are using the No Contact Rule, your ex can be bouncing back and forth between thinking that the breakup was the right decision and thinking it was a huge mistake.

This is exactly what should be happening.

Your ex is getting to experience a real breakup instead of the kind that so many people give to their exes – a fake breakup where the person who was dumped keeps contacting, complimenting, begging, pleading, and other things that keep them in the life of the dumper and don’t allow the dumper to experience life without them.

If the dumper (your ex) knows that they can get you back whenever they want you, it’s not a real breakup.

Your ex, in that case, won’t worry that they made the wrong decision because there is no consequence to their actions.

If your ex can get you back whenever they want to, even if the breakup was the wrong decision, they can fix it anytime if they want to.

So there is no pressure, urgency, or reason for your ex to do anything to try to fix what they broke.

In the video above go over how you can know if your ex is responding to your use of the No Contact Rule by pretending to be over you.

It’s a good sign if they are and I list some signs in the video that will give you a pretty good indication of if your ex is pretending to be over you. Also see the accompanying post at “Signs your ex is pretending to be over you.”

Coach Lee
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